Beginning to agree with something I read on the internet somewhere about how people should stop making silly romantic movies. It has messed us up. Created this vision of what love should be and guys should be- that is simply not true. Our mothers, our married friends saw/see it when they say 'you get used to him' or that 'you will just have to compromise'. We kept thinking no no thats not it. But it has to end. We just have to start living in the real world where no guy will ever 'love me just the way I am', or 'compare me to the moon', to launch a hundred army on my behalf. There is no love; people just convince themselves they are in love, which usually means either they are in lust, or that they want to make babies, or want to move out of their parent's control. I will move into that world now as well. I'm not being cyncal, just realistic. At 26, I'm growing up.